I'm so sorry that you are going through this, HEW. My situation is a little similar. I was diagnosed with widespread, albeit low grade, DCIS in L breast, a week ago and the wait for mastectomy is indefinite. It totally sucks! I'm older than you (47) and have no kids (horrible experience with infertility, failed IVF and failed adoption, to which I now have to add the grief of losing my breast!) but the uncertainty is killing me. I feel selfish wishing I could get my surgery planned when there are people dying of Covid-19 but no one seems to understand the impact of just stopping "routine" operations. The effect on me psychologically is devastating. If you want a chat, I'm here! Sending hugs, Marisa
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