Hi this is my first time ! I can understand your anxiety completely on the 17th of Nov I'm having the same surgery and you are right until they look at your lymph nodes the diagnosis might change same for me . I`m sure you have made the right choice about your surgery , from what I have read and the surgeon told me there is no clinical difference between a mastectomy and lumpectomy in the caner coming back . Its how the team treat you afterwards with chemo / radiotherapy / receptor therapies will help it from coming back . Could another relative or friend not be your plan B in case your husband is not there? I`m in awe of anyone facing this on their own Perhaps your GP could help with some medication to relax you . Positive thoughts you will beet this on Monday is the step towards been cancer free xxxxxxx alimac
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