I was in a similar position in February. Initial plan was bilateral lumpectomies and radiotherapy. Then cells were found in lymph nodes one side so those were removed. The lymph nodes were a surprise and showed the cancer cells were acting out of character. It was then the chemotherapy word was used. I was ‘on the cusp’ for recommendation for chemo but my oncologist seemed keen. I asked for some time to consider it all and driving home with all the info whizzing round my head my decision became clearer. I was very afraid of chemo and all it brings. I was also very afraid of how I would feel if I said no and a few months down the line, when it would all have been over, i was left wondering. I begin my third cycle of seven on Saturday and can honestly say it has been much better than I feared. I have a lovely wig which looks just like my hair on a good day and a couple of beanies. I will be glad when it’s all over and I still have radiotherapy on the horizon but at least I know I am doing all I can. All that said, this decision I think was right for me but you will be bound to weigh up all the pros and cons for your particular circumstances. good luck whatever your decision is, I hope this helps. X
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