Just been reading through your post and I can understand how frustrated you feel about your mum. Like a lot of people have said on here, I shop a lot at M and S, boring but they have what I need! I also sometimes customise like some of the ladies have written. A few buttons here and there, but my sewing skills end there I am afraid!
I have my anniversary coming up in a few months, 5 years!!!, so I wanted some special lingerie for it, fed up of nude coloured sacks! So I had a quick search on Google and found http://www.dimurini.com. They don't stock any plain bras but just really luxurious stuff. It's a bit more expensive than I would normally pay, but well worth it - satin, lace, matching knickers - I'm going to feel like a princess :-). I thought you could let your mum know just in case she wants to treat herself, as it's the prettiest mastectomy lingerie I have found in years.
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