There is no right or wrong way to react to the result. You will be shell shocked as we all have been on hearing the news. I would say that you should tell your husband, hopefully he will be your strongest support. You will need someone to lean on. Your family I am sure would be upset to know you hadn't told them as for your employer well you will have to mention it as you will probably be off work for a while.
Right now you don't know which way to turn but believe me you will get through this and are a lot stronger than you give yourself credit for. Take one day at a time, don't try to think about yesterday or tomorrow but live through each moment of the present. Hard I know, easier said than done i know but it kind of worked for me. I wish you all the bestxx
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