I was diagnosed in Dec '11, was having the biopsy a day before my 35th birthday. It took nearly 5 weeks to know what it was, but had a mastectomy week before xmas, was hard as i have two sons, they were 6 and 22 months at the time. Had to have full node clearance in Jan '12. I think that i dealt with it better because i had the kids to stay strong for. I had chemo 3 Fec & 3 Tax, also 15 rads which involved me staying in hospital as it was too far to travel every day so that was hard, but I came through it. I think that I cope really well with one breast, but I am wondering what to do to have recon or not. I am like you, paranoid of the other breast, and as the nurses said my bc wouldn't necessarily show on mammogram as i had lobular, I am now waiting for the results of an MRI which I had two weeks ago, fingers crossed x
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