Breast Cancer Now Forum

I live North of Northampton and my nearest hospital is the General in Northampton. I had skin sparing bilateral mastectomy with Beckers (as I mentioned before). No diagnosis of cancer, but strong family history.  The Beckers are permanent expander implants, so will not need replacing (just expanding over a period of time).  I wasn't given the option of saving my nipples, so will have that procedure done at the end of this journey.    I have now had my first "fill" and was feeling quite anxious before my appointment, but I am delighted to say it went smoothly and I feel fine - no pain or pressure at all.  I hope it continues the same way. I am lucky that the Hospital team are very friendly and made me feel at ease so I am not worried about future saline fills.  The only drawback with this procedure is the length of time it takes.   Good news that you have been able to extend your sickness leave.  I will probably return to work on reduced hours for a little while, but I won't decide until later this month.  X ... View more

My surgery was in Northampton and I was looked after brilliantly by the team.     The Becker implants do feel very firm, but I understand they soften over time, especially once the inflation process gets under way - although, please correct me if you know otherwise!    I am not returning to work for another three weeks, but I feel for you if you're returning soon. There is no way I could return yet despite healing well. I work in central London, and my total daily commute is about 5 hours (which for me is too much so soon after surgery).   What kind of reconstruction did you have? x     ... View more

Hi, I had my ovaries removed 3 years ago, aged 46 (as preventative surgery), and was then prescribed a low dose HRT patch. I have not had any hot flushes, although I have put on a bit of weight. I can't honestly say the weight gain is due to the menopause though, as it is more likely due to over indulgence!   Good luck with the procedure.  I appreciate everyone's experience is different, but I have sailed through surgical menopause without any symptoms.   Deb     ... View more

Hi, Snap! I also had bilateral mastectomy with reconstruction on 28th July as preventative surgery. How are you feeling now, better I hope?   I had Becker implants and am awaiting my first fill (tomorrow - yikes). I am feeling anxious tonight as I don't know what to expect during my consultation tomorrow morning.   I hope you're healing ok. Deb ... View more

Oh Poppy, I don't know what to say. How horrid, but grief disguises itself in many rash actions. I am sending warm and gentle hugs to you. Have some faith that your family will eventually heal. X ... View more

Hi Lois, Like you, I have a strong family history of breast cancer (and also ovarian). I've just taken the decision to have risk-reducing bilateral oophorectomy and will follow that with bilateral mastectomy. It's scarey. I'm 46 and pre-menopausal. I have a daughter and want to ensure I'm around for her. I feel like the estrogen in my body is a ticking bomb. It has taken me six months to decide to go ahead with surgery. I found this website/community today whilst researching my surgery options. I wish you lots of luck coming to your decision. I think what finally made me decide was the thought of impending menopause. I think that potentially it's such a dangerous time, but that's just my opinion. Look after yourself. Deb xx ... View more