Hi Jenji, Hope you had a good night and slept well, I think sometimes we expect too much of ourseleves, i think we assume that we can just do all the things we used to do,and at top speed. well I know that I can't. It has taken me almost 2 yrs to accept this. But now I just do a little every day It is like they say you wouldn't eat an elephant in one go. So my garden which is quite big gets done in sections, so today I cut the edges of the back lawn, and cleaned down the right side- about 2 hours then some lunch and an hours rest on the bed. I am lucky to have my husband around, although he can cut the grass for me, he doesn't do the rest- injured his back many years ago., also has COPD. but he is a great cook, I know that I am so lucky. Just be gentle on yourself, You say that you have recently moved, are there any Breast Cancer groups nearby you could join, I go to one in Bath once a month, we have coffee and cake and chat and sometimes a guest speaker. Learnt a lot. Take Care, keep in touch, Huggles Jenny.
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