or may not if you are not like me but i thought i would share ....
i had bc in 2007 now out the other side if it all -just had a nasty scare but all seems fine this time
well.... when i had bc i stayed inthe closet - the major advantage of this was avoiding all the stress caused by the questions that people ask . i am sure genuine concern but them asking you questions does not help. no way
i only told 4 people .... one of those asked the really great question "so whats's stopping you getting it in the other breast"
i am not a violent person but i have to admit she came close to a clonk
the other thing was the buses "anyone can get runover by one" incase you didnt't know already ........
the funny thing is we don't have a bus service here and i miss them!!!! so doubly insulting ....
in my view the best thing to do is as follows
... tell almost noone you may have a problem
.... don,t search the internet . it doesn't tell you anything about your own case
..... read the stories on this site and share with peopel onhere- far better as we are all in the same boat. anything is doable
....... don't let anyone ask you questions you don't know answers to . it freaks you out and you don't want a heart attack just now
.......... always remember - even if treatment might be scary .... having no treatment is a lot more scary than that
good luck, thiink pleasant thoughts, my cats helped a lot, we are all different but if this has helped someone then it was worth writing
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