So sorry you are feeling like this but guess what... Yes the others are dead right... you are absolutely normal. So many of us felt like that as well, expect to feel a bit better soon but it's possible that you may have another blip at sometime but thats normal too. I did at two years stage. (In fact I don't know what I am doing on this site I haven't been on here for ages but am just passing through).
My dx was four and a half years ago and I am feeling really well and have done for a couple of years. However I felt so awful for so long with chemo and herceptin and thought it would never end. But it does, and you have your life back, it may be a slightly different life and you never forget this time but it fades away.
I made some fabulous friends on this site, four I met up with last week for lunch, we were all going through at the same time and they helped a lot in those early months ( and years).
So what I am trying to say is you will feel better but meanwhile expect to feel ropey for a bit longer, expect that and try to spoil yourself a bit.You just have to sit it out.
Hope this helps. Good Luck Sam and I hope you are feeling better soon and that 2012 is great for you.
( I have just read your post again after I finished writing and have just come back to say. I felt so much better after Herceptin was finished it gave me dreadful joint pain and I had difficulty with stairs and was so tired but 3 months after it finished I felt great. I was stage 3 HER2+++)Stick in there kid!
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