I very much doubt you can keep it to yourself, and to be honest I don't think it is sensible either! I don't know your personal circumstances, who you live with etc. but sweetheart, you will need some help. Everyone reacts differently to chemo and you may be one of the lucky ones, but if you aren't, you will need help with cooking meals, housework, shopping and so on. Do you work? if so, you will find this is a no-no some days. You may even need a companion to take you home from your sessions, and what if you are hospitalised? It simply is not realistic. I most certainly could not have managed without my wonderful husband and equally wonderful (adult) daughter, not to mention a small handful of good friends. (and my dog!) xxx
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