Thank you ladies for your kind words. I have briefly looked in over the last couple of days to see if things have quietened down and it looks like they have. My reason for wishing to leave was promted by another lady who was leaving and as the one, I felt, with the greater responsibility, I thought it should be me rather than her. On reflection, the posts I commented on were neither meant for me nor meant to be read by me and so my responses were shocking to those on the receiving end and I imagine far from the support they were expecting. What did my foray into the primary forum achieve?. Absolutely nothing apart from upsetting some primary ladies and making them worried about posting their true thoughts in case the pit bull from the secondaries forum descended on them when they weren't looking. I still feel that the main point of my comments was missed. I believe that research into metastatic breast cancer is the way forward for better outcomes for all those with bc. Those outcomes might not be in time for us, but hopefully they will be for those who come after and without awareness that will never happen. I will always check the forums as I like to see how you are all doing and read your news, but I'm not sure it's the right place for me as I'm a bit 'too in your face' and not so good at the other stuff. Love to all Tink x
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