Hi Im new to the forum but thankfully at the end of my treatment just thought id post my experience as im 38 a single mum to a four year old little girl I was diagnosed sept last year with grade 2, 5 cm idc a couple of lymph nodes involved i had a mastectomy and auxiliary clearence in october and started chemo fec-t in december finished 4 weeks ago and im now waiting for 3 weeks of rads to start in a couple of weeks Its all doable as u will see from many people on here i explained everything from the start to my daughter ive read her mummys lump book on numerous ooccasions which really helped she went to the disney store with my mum everytime i had my chemo (definitely helped!! ) when i shaved my hair she was there i said what do u think she said yeah mummy can i go and play now !!! I explained it would grow back after my medicine she is now waiting for cinderella to appear every morning !!! I was lucky not to have any sickness on the chemo but did feel tired and achey so i napped when i could went to bed early etc and asked for help when i needed it im now 4 weeks post last chemo hair is growing back im back at the gym energy is slowly getting there feeling much better so what im trying to say is there is a light at the end of the tunnel the first couple of weeks after diagnosis were hard then i had a plan and just wanted to get on with it As for children i did find it really helped explaining everything towards the end she got bored of it and wasnt interested in mummy going to hospital !!! It meant disney store and time with nanny !!! Ive just started tamoxifen as mine was er+ going to be on them for 10 years !!! Hope that helps and good luck with your treatment and stay positive definitely helps Nat x
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