I know, it is a real nuisance isn't it.. really feel for you. Can you ask what the alternatives are then, if they are not allowing you oestrogen products? I feel sure that the only reason (and I may be wrong) is that if they did give the green light for the pessaries and the cancer did return, then they would be fearful of you pointing the finger so to speak, I don't know. Anti depressants as I understand, can lift the mood if this is what is needed, but also feel sure they can interfere with your libido, so would be wary of taking those. Besides, do you feel depressed? The psychological argument also sounds like a fob off too. Your issue sounds physical, not psychological..so the medics need to be finding ways to help you overcome your problem, not offering drugs and making out that it is all in your head! Maybe go back to basics, hand holding, touching, kissing..then see where it all leads??
... View more