Hi @pat1
The answer is yes, I did have chemo with my first tumour 17 years ago, and again with the second one 7 years ago. I think it depends on one’s individual circumstances. I was 58 back then, and my husband had lost his first wife to pancreatic cancer (age 44), so we were pretty desperate for a better outcome for me! Second time was herceptin pos tumour and there was no discussion as it was aggressive.
I really don’t blame you for opting out of chemo as it’s not an easy thing to go through, has its own risks, and side effects like peripheral neuropathy can remain a niggle for years after. If I was making the choice at 77 without other factors, I reckon I would opt out too. I have a friend who turned chemo down 10years ago and remains fit and well.
So “well done you” for making your own life decisions.
All the best to you
Eily 