That’s so crappy. I originally was diagnosed with DCIS, they’ve found some invasive now but I know the feelings of thinking god did I do this, and the am I entitled to these feelings. Doesn’t help when people are berks. I had someone say to me well you drink a lot of Pepsi max, do you think that’s what’s done it? lol I actually corrected them on the spot. Not something I would usually do but said comments like that don’t help people when they are facing this diagnosis. I’m not trying to upset you but what you’ve just said is really hurtful and a little silly.
She took it well and then fell off the radar!
My boss has been really good. I heard from a colleague as soon as he heard my diagnosis he researched what it meant, how I may be feeling and how best to support someone when going through this. That’s the type of support you need!