Hello, I’m stuck knowing whether to continue with hormone therapy due to 2 different oncologist’s opinions.
My first breast cancer was August 2013 when I was 35, grade 3, ER+ and I had a lumpectomy, chemo, rads followed by Tamoxifen.
I then had a recurrence 18 months later in Jan 2015 near to the surgery scar. This time I had mastectomy with reconstruction, further chemo and then put onto zoladex injections and exemestane to eradicate any oestrogen in my body. With my surgery they removed 8 lymph nodes with 1 having disease which they said is micrometastasis.
The original idea was that I would stay on the hormone therapy for 2 years, then it got extended to 5 years and then there was talk of going onto 10 years.
My team in Brighton were brilliant, however I moved up to Yorkshire in 2019 and so have been trying to get used to a new team and therefore a new oncologist.
My initial meeting, which was just after 4 years of being on the treatment, he suggested that I might want to think about coming off the meds after 5 years as they thought that there would be no need to extend beyond that. I was a bit surprised and a little concerned at the different opinion but didn’t worry too much as it was still a little way off.
The following year as I approached the 5 year mark, I started to get anxious and emailed my old oncologist for advice. He replied to say he strongly recommended I continue with the medication for 10 years especially due to the recurrence whilst I was on Tamoxifen.
My appointment with the new oncologist had to be a phone appointment due to Covid though I had emailed him a copy of the letter from my previous doctor. He said he hadn’t seen it as he gets loads of emails and proceeded again to tell me he thought there was little point in continuing with the medication as he felt that there was little or no difference in the protection it offered after having been on it for 5 years. He said there would be continued protection from what I had already had and there was research to back this up though when I later asked for details of this, he said there was only research for Tamoxifen. He did say it was up to me what I wanted to do but I felt very confused afterwards.
The thing is, yes I don’t want to keep having injections and taking pills, yes I want to feel more like my old self, yes, I want to stop feeling tired and achy, yes, I want my mental health to recover, yes I want to improve my sex life with my partner, BUT I don’t want the cancer to come back either!
It was stressing me so much that I decided to continue having the medication but always in the back of my mind I’ve thought could I stop it and have a better quality of life? But I don’t know if I could ever get over it, if I stopped my meds and the cancer came back. Though I know it could come back anyway!
You can see why I’m going round in circles!! My next telephone appointment with the oncologist is coming up this month and I’m now 6 years on the meds. I’m already getting anxious about the appointment and what to do. What do you do, when 2 oncologists who you want to believe are doing the best they can for you, have 2 different opinions?!
Sorry for the long post. I just don’t know where to go with this.
Hope someone can give me some advice!
Hugs to all!