Hi Ladies,
Been having a few low days and its really starting to get to me! Got a cold and chesty cough right now so hoping i get my EC number 4 next Wed. Obviously got aches and pains to go along with it which makes your mind think oh is it just down to this cold I have which got me on the whole downer in the first place!
The past week ive felt a bit down and had a few drinks each night after work at home(maybe a few too many the last week or so) seen as I no longer go out anywhere…to the point of just going to and from work, ive even stopped going shopping. My poor OH goes which she doesnt mind. Anyhow the more and more i think about once I finish treatment the more I worry. As I am ER- a tiny bit PR positive and HER- i dont know what lies ahead after RADS. I ordered a holiday brochure and it arrived on Saturday - me and OH have decided once my treatment is over with we are going to go somewhere very special…as we were looking through the pages i could only think of “pick somewhere really nice it might be your last” and so I stopped reading it and went to go do some cleaning as i felt really sad, all i could think of was im 31 and how long am i gonna last…(i know im sorry for being morbid)
Last night my sis and her husband came round and we played on the Wii and had a really good laugh and a few drinks/nibbles, watched the rugby etc and we had a lovely time…then i had another horrid thought as I began pouring the drinks! All I could think was how soooo unfair life is! Heres me in a loving relationship, my first house(mortgage) we have only been in less than a year, the best sis you could ask for and all having a wonderful time together like young couples should be…how many more times will i be doing this, how many more times will there be?
After they left my OH and I were talking and its really the first time she has commented as its normally me who does all the chatting and ranting and she just listens and is really positive which usually perks me up. we got to talking about the holiday we plan when my treatment is over and I said ya know when my treatment is over it doesnt end there, it may take me a while to get over the whole ordeal and she agreed and I said how ive been feeling about worrying if it comes back etc etc and she nodded and admitted she has thought about it and worries too but she said we must live our lives to the full in the meantime in which I agreed.
She then went to bed and I logged onto the internet and read some sad posts on here and looked up things on internet which made me worse…so I went to bed. Have woke this morning and again all achy(prob doesnt help i played Tiger Woods game on Wii all yesterday plus the aches from my cold but i just cant get things out of my head.
Also, I was told my periods would stop when on chemo and they havent which im not that concerned about to be honest, however my last one lasted for ten days when i only ever do max three days ever! My breasts were so tender and sore as they would be but they still are which i cant understand - is this normal as i progress thru chemo??
Before anyone suggests talking to my BC nurse or Chemo nurse im a private person and dont feel i could share my fears with anyone at the min.
Phew, im sure I could go one but im sure ive made you all miserable enuf!
Hoping & Praying everyone getting results/treatment biopsys etc tomorrow gets good news.
Love to you all
Lynne.x