anyone with secondary spread to axilla?

I was dx in May 2009 with bone mets,lung mets and spread to axilla on the left side.It was 10cm x 8cm mass, and following chemo and 35 rads it was reduced to 2cm x 3cm.I have since been on femera but the axilla mass has reduced no further.I actually have axilla lymphadenopathy cancer-mestatic breast cancer in the axilla with no primary cancer.
Mid treatment I changed hospitals and oncs.My previous onc seemed to be happy to consider surgery as the mass had become more mobile(it had previously been attached), but my new oncologist is not so keen to opt for surgery.I am thinking of asking for a second opinion but wondered if anyone else is having, or had, treatment for a similar condition.

Linda xx