Welcome to the forum @kaq
I’m so sorry to hear about your diagnosis and I hope that you find the support you’re looking for here.
You may find this conversation from March last year interesting: Axillary node clearance recovery times? - Diagnosed with breast cancer / Local recurrence or new primary diagnosis - Breast Cancer Now forum.
The forum is full of kind, knowledgeable people and I’m sure someone will be able to share their experience with you.
Sending our warmest,
Lucy