hello ladies my name is bob and i was diagnosed as having breast cancer yesterday.I know that most people on this sight are ladies and i hope it’s ok for me to be on here, because ladies to be perfectly honest I’m damn petrified of what’s ahead. I go for the operation on the 5th of November.
Welcome to the forums, I’m sure other users will be along to support you soon.
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Hi Bob
Hope all went ok for you today and you make a good recovery. Look after yourself or better still get someone else to do that for you as you deserve it.
how did your op go ? Hope ,like me,you found it was nowhere near as bad as you were expecting. Take it easy during recovery and let us know how you are getting on.
Hi Bob
Hope your op went ok and that your comfortable, we all know how you feel about it all, but hopefully you will find as I did helpful info on here from all of us who are in the same boat. It is very scary when you first find out and your emotions are all over the place but when you start having treatment things get easier, It helps to have a positive attitude about it all and you will get there.
Take care Carole
lots of love bob hope your recovering by now and just want you to know male or female we are all reeling from this dx of cancer,and the battle ahead,bonded by fear of the unknown ,but friends are here doesn,t mean we got all the answers but we all care! take care love sheena x
Dear Bob,hope everything went well for you today.We are all here for you and we all know what you are feeling.You will be surprised how resilient you become and can face what ever this cancer thing throws at you.Anyway ,good luck and try to let us know how you are getting on.
Hi Bob juist as everyone else said before me"good luck for today"male or female we are all in the same boat and if any question I am sure someone out of us will be able to answer them. Take care Joyce
Hi Bob, just want to echo all the other comments and wish you well. This disease knows no boundaries and does not discriminate against its victims. We are all in it together. I have found this forum a complete lifesaver and I hope you find the support right for you.
Hope all went well with your op and you are recovering well. It makes no difference if you’re male or female, we all feel scared at sometime. Let us know haow you get on and there will always be someone to answer your questions here