Cress

It is with saddness that we are sharing this on behalf of Cress’ daughter.

Hi,

I’m Julias teenage daughter Marcella - and am sending this message to everyone in her inbox to let them know that she sadly passed away in the early hours of Wednesday.  Her metastices had spread greatly when she was too weak for chemotherapy and we cared for her at home for a few wonderful weeks.  She passed peacefully and without suffering, surrounded by all her family and closest friends.

She was a beautiful woman with elegance, style, intelligence and an inherent need to help and support others selflessly. She had a fullfilled life through her many years at the council supporting and helping local authority tenancy groups - across London. She then moved onto working for Oxfam after many years as a volunteer, performing merchandising, training and retail skills that raised millions for those in need of water, food and medicine.

Me and my dad are greatly hurt by her leaving us but one of the last things she said to me was that she would be forever in my heart and would watch over everything I go on to do with great pride. In every milestone in my life I will look to the clouds and smile because of all the happy memories we made.

For every person that loses this incredible battle there are those who win and I will do all I can with charity work to help increase that number. The important thing she taught me is to never lose hope and right until the end - thats exactly what she did, researching every trial treatment under the sun.

She fought incredibly hard all the way until the end and was an informed, interested and engaged part of the wonderful work at the Macmillan unit.

We will have a beautiful service for her filled with love, light and beautiful flowers. Thank you to everyone on this forum for being there for her and providing her with the practical advice she treasured greatly. I wish you all the best in your treatment and will be thinking of you all, as will she.

Marcella

Thank you so much for giving us this sad news. She was a lovely person and we will always remember her strength and kindness to everyone here.
My thoughts are with you and your dad at this sad time but your memories will always stay with you of happier times.
Hugs xx

So sorry to hear this sad news Marcella, my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your dad. Thank you for letting us know.

Sending you my deepest sympathy hugs Janette xxxx 

Marcella - I didn’t know your mum but I’m very sorry to hear that she can’t be here with you anymore. I’d like to convey my sincere condolences to you and your dad. You are clearly a real credit to her. The words you’ve said are so eloquent and kind, she will be looking down with pride.

X

Dear Marcella

Thankyou for letting us know about cress she was well loved on this forum I have been trying to get in touch with her we have been chatting on the private messages and since her last message I was worried things were getting worse. She was a really lovely person and I shall never forget her may she now rest in peace.

All hearfelt commiserations to your father you and family and friends. I will put her name in the dedications Thread. xxx

Marcella, what a wonderful tribute to a very special lady. We all try and stay strong for our children and hope that they will be able to do the same. Like your mum, i have told my  my daughter  that i will always be by her side and watching over her. If i’ve done the job half as well as your mum then i’ll be happy…you are a credit to her. Sincere condolences to you and you family.x