Denial or google

I’m unsure…a relative was dx many years ago (11) and didn’t know what grade, what stage, whether it was hormone positive…whatever…she had surgery, tamoxifen…and got on with her life…

 

I am dx over 6 years ago…googled too much…looked at all the statistics, prognosis etc worried for the next few few years…

 

Now she’s been dx with bone secondaries and it’s a shock to her…what’s better? is it btter to be in denial?

 

If it was me, I would have asked to be referred for a bone scan…but is it better not knowing?

Hi mal,

 

I have to say that I’d much rather know what the possibilities are. Then if they don’t happen that’s a bonus. If they do, you’re prepared. I’ve even been know to have a sort of plan worked out, just in case. :womanembarrassed:

 

poemsgalore xx