I had my mx in July 2011, was left with an enlarger in to save the skin, was told how lucky I was, no chemo or radio theraphy. I can’t have a tram flap- existing weakness on that side. I desperately wanted a diep - bonus I thought tummy tuck for free at least cancer has given me that but no, too high risk. I can’t describe how much I hate what I’ve got left with. My biggest fear in the beginning was an implant or nothing and now that’s my choice. I hate how I look and feel - comfort eaten up to 13st and no boob!! I feel so ugly. how do I overcome the feeling that I wish I could turn back the clock? I KNOW how I should feel but I hate how it looks both dressed and undressed, hate how it feels.
Hi Amanda
Have they talked about an LD flap recon? That’s the one that uses muscle from your back. Mine looks very convincing - doesn’t feel like my ‘real’ boob, but nothing ever will I’m afraid.
There are other sorts of recon too - but I don’t know much about them.
If you’re not happy with the advice / options you are being given, ask for a second opinion.
Good luck.
Dx
Hi Amanda
I am sorry to read that you are having such a difficult time at the moment, in addition to the help you have here please feel free to call our helpline for further support and information, the lines are open Mon-Fri 9-5 and Sat 9-2 on 0808 800 6000 and our helpliners are here for you.
Take care
Lucy