Hi foxgem,
Thank you for posting. It is understandable that you have questions about your diagnosis and the timings of your treatment, especially if your cancer was misdiagnosed in May. It is common to feel stress and anxiety about which treatment is right for you and you may find it helpful to read our information on strategies for managing anxiety.
Treatment plans will vary from person to person according to the features of their cancer as you say. As @loupy @butterflywing and @kay8 mention it can be confusing to understand why different people receive particular treatments and it is natural to have questions. All treatment decisions are made by the multidisciplinary team and are tailored to you.
You say that your breast cancer is oestrogen positive and that you are worried that you have not yet started any hormone treatment. As @loupy says hormone therapy is usually given after surgery and chemotherapy are completed. Hormone treatment can be given at the same time, or after radiotherapy if chemotherapy is not required. The aim of surgery is to remove your cancer, and all other treatments are known as adjuvant treatments which aim to reduce the risk of the cancer coming back (recurrence). It is not unusual for hormone therapy to be given some months after a diagnosis of breast cancer. Further mammograms, ultrasounds and MRIs scans are not usually required during your treatment or before you start follow up.
You mention that you don’t yet know what type of cancer you have, or the results of your oncotype test. The best people to answer your questions are your treatment team as they will have access to your notes, know the pathology of your cancer and be able to explain your oncotype results. If you have a breast care nurse it would be a good idea to contact them as @naughty_boob suggests. You can ask them to meet with you so that they can explain your treatment plan.
It is understandable that you worried about the pain you are experiencing with your periods, but it is not uncommon to experience breast pain as part of your normal menstrual cycle .
You may be interested in our support tailored specifically for younger women with primary breast cancer who are aged between 18-45 years. This includes our Younger Women Together events that are run face to face and online. This support offers the opportunity to meet and share experiences with other younger women and get expert information in a confidential space. More information can be found on the links above.
You may also be interested in The Younger Breast Cancer Support Group (YBCSG) which is a private Facebook group run by young women for young women (18-45 years) who’ve had breast cancer. To join, go to Facebook and search ‘Younger Breast Cancer Support Group’ and send them a private message. Some people find talking with another younger woman who’s been diagnosed with breast cancer helpful. Our Someone Like Me service can match you with a trained volunteer who’s had a similar experience to you. They’ll contact you by phone call or email to answer your questions, offer support or simply listen. You can ring the Someone Like Me team on 0800 138 6551 or email them at someone.likeme@breastcancernow.org so they can then match you to your volunteer.
Do call our helpline if you would like to talk this through or have any further questions. The helpline team have time to listen, talk things through and signpost you to additional support and information if necessary. Your call will be confidential, and the number is free from UK landlines and all mobile networks.
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