Fear and anxiety

Not coping today, I am normally a,strong person. But after being told herceptin not working on lung mets yesterday I have been plagued with anxiety, even came up in hives. Also ashamed to say I have taken a diazepam to calm me . I will be on chemo tablets soon so they said there were options, so feeling annoyed at myself there are people going through the same . Anxiety the worse thing to feel but will hopefully get through it. Sorry for being a,woose. 

Biker, just wanted to let you know that I was thinking of you and not to apologise, it’s understandable that you’re feeling anxious at the moment. Anxiety is a horrible thing. Good that you’ll be able to take chemo tablets soon x 

Anxiety plays so many tricks on you I was diagnosed 4.5 years when I m having fab time Luke being on holiday it makes my anxiety worse I feel like I’m pushing my luck . All week convinced myself it’s back my glands have been going up and down in my neck according to no one else can feel them I think it’s all in my head . To terrified to go to doctor , yet when I am low I can pick myself up no problem . Is this normal I feel so blessed we have lovely life just always feel my bubble is going to burst xx

It is hard I have a group of friends who were diagnosed the same time as me and yes your rightwe all still have the wobbles . It’s bizarre I look at my hair and cry as this is how it was pre diagnosis . I will probably go to doctors about anxiety but I have white coat syndrome blood pressure goes through the roof when I go there . Hope we both get the help we need xx