After a routine mammogram on May 20th, and follow up tests (ultrasound/biopsies) on June 5th, it was confirmed I had breast cancer in left breast. IDC grade 2, er+ pr+ her2- 3 separate cancers ranging from 20mm to 40mm. Single mastectomy, no reconstruction on 8th July. Drain removed after 8 days and now seroma has formed which feels sore. I am seeing consultant in 2 days and am so emotional and anxious about the next steps in treatment plan and what they might be. I try hard to stay positive but today I just feel overwhelmed and keep crying. If anyone is feeling the same or has felt the same in the past please reach out. Even with support around me it’s amazing how lonely and isolated I feel.
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It’s absolutely understandable that you feel overwhelmed, you have just had major surgery and your mind and body haven’t had a chance to recover yet. And it’s the weekend, of course! Fortunately you know you have an appointment in a couple of days time. Perhaps you can spend this waiting time putting together a list of all the questions you want to ask about immediate treatment plans, emotional issues you are experiencing and the way forward.
Wishing you all the very best, this forum is a brilliant source of inspiration and support. 
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Dear tp5,
We are all here from you, try to be kind to yourself, surgery, cancer and all what goes with it, takes a big toll on us.
I agreed with Sundowner, make some notes what ever comes into your head, we always forget the most important questions, also let your breast cancer nurse know how your feeling she is there to help and support you.
After I had surgery, I was feeling very much like you, some cope better than others, hopefully after your next appointment together with your treatment plan you’ll start to feel better, cancer can be a lonely place. Do you have a Maggie’s centre near you or maybe attached to your hospital they are very supportive.
Wishing you, health and happiness going forward. At the moment take one day at a time. Please let us know how you’re getting on.
Biggest hugs Tili 
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I am new to this group and at the early stages of shock, grief and anger, as are you.
You’ve been through surgery, which in itself is a big thing to cope with, and now you are looking down this dark tunnel.
Who wouldn’t be in tears.
My advice would be to allow yourself those weepy days with no guilt attached. You will feel better.
We ask so much of ourselves, but it’s ok not to be ok.
I’m feeling better now I know the plan going forward, although frightened of what’s coming. I hope you settle after your consultation, but let yourself have those weepy days. And keep in touch on the forum.
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