now that my treatments are hopefully over (im waiting for further bone scan),why is it that every fortnight my money comes in and i have more going out!! seems one foot forward 7 back!!i dont know what to do for the best all these bills need to be payed but if i havnt got the money please explain HOW ! ive been to cab and cannot get any more benefits. just today im feeling so fed up and down about it all .cant see it paying me to return to work as ill be no better off financially. family have all got there own lives so dont want to upset them any more they have been so good during my treatment, just feel lonely staying in all the time , and just so retchedly tired. oh well roll on the summer!!! lynn x
Hi Lyn
Sorry you are feeling low, know where your coming from tho’…hang on in there am right behind you, yellow hugs to you, speak later
Elainexx
hi lynn,
understand how you feel, i have made an apt with CAB for next wednesday to try and sort out my finances, have you tried NATIONAL DEBT LINE…www.nationaldebtline.co.uk…0808 808 4000…I found them very helpful…they sent me lots of information with samples of letters that you could write to people you owe money to…I’m going to give CAB ago…if not very helpful will be going back to national debt line for help.
Theres alot of us in the same boat…but doesn’t seem to be much help for us out there.
keep your chin up hun.
love
karen xx
hi girls thanks for the support. i think national debt line is for people with huge debts running into thousands mine is maybe not as much as that but sure does feel like a millstone round my neck. ive ben to collect my money today after paying a few bills find myself left with 40 and its my daughters birthday on monday, so gues what ill be eating next week!1 love lynn xx
hi lynn,
honestly lynn, it really is worth giving national debt line a ring, yes they do deal with large debts but from what i’ve read of the pack i’ve got, also smaller debts, please at least give them a ring and see what they say, i was sent a information pack, which basiclly means you can follow the advice in there and send letters worded as their samples are…you can ring as many times as you want, its only if the self help doesn’t work and you need further help that they go further into options with you…does matter how big or small your debt is hun if its dragging you down its worth a try…looks like me and you under the pier then !!!..
love
karen xx
Eh you two, wherever you go I will be there so under the pier it is then…lol…Hope you were not going to sneak off without me,
Well Lyn a MILLION HOUSEWIFES EVERYDAY PICK UP A TIN OF BEANS AND SAY…BEINZ MEANZ HEINZ…Bit of a windy week coming on.
Take care and speak soon
Elaine
hi you too . fancy living under the peir for a while. i need to escape from warring daughters!!! lolalso its windy enough outside never mind in here . speak soon going to buy a lottery ticket, hopefully we can all go away when i win ok!!! love lynn xx
hi lynn,
warring daughters…i had warring son’s a few months ago…fists an’ all…can sympathsise with you…i might have a go at getting lottery ticket today…don’t usually buy one…but you never know!!
be flippin’ blowy under that pier…got some thermals though lol…best tell elaine when we’re off…don’t want her left behind…we need some entertainment lol!!
karen x
Well have you wond…go on tell the truth, will it be a posh picnic basket under the pier with strawberries and champers…lol
Elaine
no its a tesco carrier bag!! what do you think i am posh!!!lol!!! hope your weekend is ok and your not to tired after callums visit. my grandson was 1 yr old yesterday and im hoping to see him today hes just starting to walk. so ill have to baby proof my house. hes the youngest of the lot . hey maybe i could get them all busking we could be the new von trap family!!! see you under the pier dont be late ok , elaine bring a wheelbarrow full of champers and kare we may well need thermals! see you later love lynn xx
whats elaine on…strawberries and champers…flippin’ bread and water love lol!!!..unless of course elaine your supplying them lol!
hope you’ve both had a good weekend…me and OH went to race for life this morning…volunteered to help rather than do race…would of been easier to do race…they couldn’t organise a whatsit in a brewery…amazing what you see and hear behind the scenes!!
love
karen xx
Hello you two hows it going??? Absolutely shattered but had a fantastic time with Callum, its is 7th Birtday next saturday, then we go on holiday on 16th July, must have been drunk when agreed to go, three kids and a dog in a caravan and its p…g down outside, great eh…
Well on my tip travels (yes still go on them…lol) Found a lovely basket (few holes in base but can stuff them with paper) to put our bread and water in…and wait for it had to put up a fight with a gypsey lady for a very stained but very usable gingam table cloth, perfict for our meal…also a broken deckchair…but who cares…
Well must be going and have a glass or three or wine and an early night… Speak soon
Elaine
give me back my tablecloth!!!it was me you fool!!! lol! no really i was trying to read cards for people and keep an eye on what was being thrown away. must say people down here are right mean , told me my own future, what do they know!! going to bag myself some of my daughters birthday cake do you think you can serve it with chips speak later love lynn xx