Ooh you look great!! So spooky! We had fun we played, danced a bit ate pie n peas followed by cake.
And thank you! It feels good to say just one more to go! Just had a nice soak in bath and going to chill and watch tele now before bed.xx
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Thank you @naughty_boob that is super useful!
My catdio told me to check my fitbit too and I can clearly see some random picks.
Fewling a bit less anxious now 
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Hi Everyone
Sorry for not naming everybody
Just back from hospital after leaving home at 9:45 this morning.
A bit of a canula palaver again, which was painful. But an experienced nurse came to the rescue. I hope that your canula was better this rinw @isthisreal. I tried to stay strong and not cry thinking of you!
Bloods were ok except ALT that was 74 but enough to get full dose over 30 min only. I halso had premeds by IV for nausea and fluids. Saw my onco who was optimistic it would go better this time. He gave me options of reduced dose next time or back to phesgo. Nothing prescribed for my SE unfortunately but was told claryrin which is used for joint pain during kadcyla is not a good idea as can cause heart arythmia. Not sure it spells like that but I took it for a week and it did not work. @arty1 who knows I may have caused my own racing heart 
Hope you all have a relaxing weekend. I may do nothing at all unless SE miraculously improve!
Sending love xx
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Hi @marionse25,
Glad you got round 2 in with slightly less drama than last time. Same here - only 2 attempts to get the cannula in for me! I didn’t feel anywhere near as nauseous this time which I’m relieved about, and they did the infusion over 30 mins and then 30mins observation, so it was much much quicker and better than last time. Im just feeling quite tired but nothing else yet. I think my ALT was a touch higher than yours on my bloods but my oncologist said they’d be ok with it until it hits about 200.
Fingers crossed you, @kartoffel and me are all in for an easier ride now onwards.
Glad @kartoffel you’re getting moved to a closer hospital for your next treatments.
@salbert well done for getting through the radio! You superstar.
Sending positive thoughts to the rest of the tribe x
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Morning @isthisreal
So happy to hear round 2 was better. Yesterday I thought about you and told myself if you can do it I can do it! My hand is all bruised but it was better than last time for sure.
A bit nauseous this morning and indomnia is defo a thing. My lower back is so painful too and has been for the past 3 weeks. I am going to rest all weekend and hope for the best.
Shame I cannot move to a closer hospital like @kartoffel I must say the long commute is draining.
Hope it goes smoothly for the 3 of us on kadcyla, and that our HER2 pack continue smoothly on their journey too
Take care
Marion xx
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I wanted to cross post this to see if anyone from this thread could answer.
Anyone not had chemo with HER2+, I think they’re were some of you on this thread.
Thank you in advance.
Thank you for cross posting, at 65 my online navigating skills aren’t fantastic !
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@ahmamma hello and welcome! There are definitely some women on here who only had surgery and radiotherapy. Is your 10mm DCIS or invasive? Because whilst they initially thought mine was just DCIS with no lymph node involvement, that was the treatment I was told I would have. Of course it then turned out to be 39mm DCIS with invasive and lymph node involvement, at which point it became a different story and so the epic treatment path began. I hope some of the other ladies who have been in your shoes see this and answer because I know we’ve had this conversation on here in the past. If you decide to do the chemo then we’ll be holding your hand. Glad that @naughty_boob cross-referred you as there is lots of great info on this thread that will help you to feel less stressed. If you do feel stressed then you absolutely must come on here and splurge. There are some amazing women on here with some great advice.
@kartoffel Your new centre sounds great. I think I may have to go and slap my bench again on Monday, now you mention it. It will probably be hiding behind a bush thinking, here’s that madwoman coming to assault me again.
@arty1 and @jeml … YOU TWO ROCK!! How is it possible to look so bloody brilliant and display such spirit in the midst of this journey, but look at you both defying bc and looking amazing whilst doing so. I love this. Respect to the both of you. You are inspiring me to get my witchy zombie outfit out again so that I can go and hang out at the bottom of my pathway to scare the children on Thursday. Have a lovely time in Wales @arty1. Keep up that fighting spirit.
@marionse25 and @isthisreal - Well done on getting through another horrible treatment day. I hope and pray you get a better weekend this time around and if it’s a duvet weekend then so be it. Resting is the best thing you can do. Sending you love and strength to hang on in there and know we are all behind you. You are awesome.
I am off to Shakespeare’s Globe tomorrow to see The Comedy of Errors and I cannot wait. To think back to the dark days that we have all known and then to get to look forward to something again and enjoy it feeling carefree, is something I appreciate in a way I never could have done before. I was saying to a friend this week, that I have held it together emotionally all this year but if there is a day when I do get emotional then it will possibly be 9th November, the anniversary of Diagnosis Day. Then again, I may celebrate. Who knows?
Love to you all, you wonderful pack.
Salbert
xx
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Thanks @salbert as my grandad use to say all time ’ you got to keep going ’ and my grandad as been through a lot of medical sfuff throughout his life… and passed away this year at 81… he was a tough cookie! Also my little one keeps me going she is 100% my rock. I had my 5th round on friday… one more to go!!! Just waiting for another booby mri and heart scan to come through now. Cannot wait to see back of 2024 and start living again. I dont feel too bad up to now, managing to get sleep in and lots of hot baths x
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Hi everyone, I’m new here and have been reading through the forum for a few weeks, I was very reluctant to actually join as it means this is all very real. I’m struggling big time! I found a small lump in my left breast on 1 Oct, was seen at the breast clinic on 10 Oct and received my cancer diagnosis on 23 Oct, triple positive, and ever since I’ve been slowly sinking into a deep black hole, googling, worrying, scared of what my life is looking like in the future. I’m 36 with 2 young children (9 and 4) and I’m trying so very hard to stick to normal life as possible but each day is getting harder. Everyone seems so positive here, please help me! From the minute I wake up (from barely any sleep) I’m crying, not wanting to do anything, let alone entertain my children or work. Does anyone have any tips or tricks to carry on as normal as I know from reading through a lot of comments there will be a lot of waiting around. I’m currently waiting for results of a mammogram, I have dense breast tissue and originally only had an ultrasound and biopsy. I have an appointment on 31 Oct to get results and discuss surgery, assuming all is ok and no further biopsies are needed. Sorry for rambling but felt like I needed to offload to people that understand how I’m feeling. My friends and family have been brilliant but just keep telling me to stay positive and everything will be ok which really isn’t helping much Thanks x
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Welcome @scaredmum1 
I think the time between when you get your diagnosis and when you have a plan is a really hard time to cope emotionally. You know that your life is changed, but you don’t have any of the answers as to what it all means for you. There’s a lot of great information on the internet, but there’s also a lot more scary stuff because the people who do fine with treatment and go on to live long lives afterwards don’t really post about it. There’s a lot of people here who understand what you’re going through, so you’ve come to the right place.
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Hi Scaredmum1,
I agree with Kartoffel that the time between finding the lump and diagnosis to starting treatment is the hardest as you are waiting on results and having lots of tests. When you were diagnosed, did they assign a named breast care nurse (bcn) to you? Use them and speak to to them, they are there to talk us down. The bcn nurse understands.
Take each day as it comes. Try to enjoy time with your family, accept that your mind will go elsewhere as this is something unknown and scary to you, but try to keep in the moment.
Once you have your treatment plan and treatment starts, it is easier to deal with because you are on the treadmill of treatments.
Allow yourself time to take in whatbis happening and use this forum - everyone is here to help x
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@ahmamma welcome , we are all here for you 
I was initially told I had high grade DCIS with a 1.1 mm invasive and if I had a mastectomy the jury was out on whether chemo and herceptin would be beneficial , however when I had my pathology results I had multi focal DCIS and five seperate Her2 invasives , all tiny but when I saw the oncologist she said predict showed having chemo and herceptin would give me an additional 6.5 % benefit so I couldn’t really avoid those odds .
I had clear nodes too . Mine however was ER negative so no additional protection in taking hormone blockers .
Did you have any invasive tumours ?
My DCIS area was a whopping 154 mm !!
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@scaredmum1 We are all here to hold your hand , it is scary when you are still waiting results , the anxiety is all consuming , how you are feeling is totally normal .
First up , don’t google ! You will terrify yourself . It’s good to be well informed about your condition but try and stick to up to date U.K. based info , this site is great , macmillan is also an excellent site . Triple positive sounds a scary prospect but the way to look at it is , your HCP can go in with a 3 pronged attack as there are targeted therapies now for these type of cancers which are an absolute game changer .
Once you have all your results and a plan , you will start to feel more in control xx
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Thank you all so much. These comments have helped me this morning more than you realise
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@salbert I’m the biggest wimp going ! However I’ve got a dark sense of humour (a relic from my nursing days ) which has somehow got me through so far . My mums been an inspiration to me how she’s calmly just taken on the chin her diagnosis and treatment . At one point they thought she’d be paralysed by the tumour on her spine but she’s a tough cookie and was determined to walk again ! She was showing me all her info from when she was diagnosed and her treatment plan yesterday and I realise just how scared she must have been but she never showed it and just cracked on .
The day before I was told I had breast cancer I went to a fantasy festival and dressed as a post apocalypse warrior , it’s now my profile pic on fb because I felt all powerful that day ! 
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@scaredmum1 well done for offloading on here. It truely is a scary time and honestly as everyone has said the waiting is the absolute worst time. Be reassured though there are really good treatments with really good outcomes and you are in the pathway now to getting rid of this. We have all experienced the exact same fears and emotions and this is completely normal. I found talking to the breast care nurses at breast care now wonderful and also have an amazing volunteer from the someone like me programme.
You really aren’t alone we are all here right beside you as you navigate this diagnosis. Xx
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Hi scaredmum
I can’t add anything to what has already been said, but you are not alone. I am triple positive also. I am much older than you . Be assured once you get a treatment plan it will feel better. If you need to vent, rant, cry then do so. The best thing is to communicate with people going through the same thing, and you are doing that now.
Sending hugs xx
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