Hello, lovely friends
@marionse25 I am so, so sorry that the wretchedness continues for you. For you of all people, I wish I could wave a magic wand and change everything. It’s just been one thing after another and I wish you could give up work, not have that hideous round trip to hospital and as for revision surgery, that is like a massive kick in the teeth after everything you’ve been through. I wish I could give you a big hug, not that it would do any good but I just feel so sad for you that this has happened in addition to everything else. You know that I highly recommend Katherine Krupa. She is not only highly skilled but is very nurturing and kind. It was one of the main reasons I chose her. If you go for a second opinion then she is wonderful. I keep saying hang in there to you, but it’s all I can say. Know that you have many friends here who care and wish it would all get better for you.
I hope you get to enjoy your weekend somehow.
@naughty_boob Once again, sterling advice re Power of Attorney. Of course we’ve done this for my parents but I’d never thought to do this for my husband and I. Makes total sense. If Martin Lewis recommends it then it’s a must. I adore the man!
@scaredmum1 - First of all, I’m going to say a huge well done for making it to Paultons Park when you are feeling like you do at the moment. That must have taken so much strength so all credit to you for being a supermum right there. Secondly, a big YES…go to see your GP. They are usually very sympathetic to what we are going through. A few of us got given sleeping pills to help during this period. I also had Zopiclone. The last thing you need is sleep deprivation on top of everything else and it’s so damn hard to eat when you are so stressed. Lots of us have gone to the GP for help at exactly the stage you are at now. Definitely go.
How did I get through the bit you are at? This forum helped me massively and still does. Stay with us and keep talking. You just keep putting one foot in front of the other and you will get there, I promise.
@arty1 I knew you wouldn’t disappoint me with Halloween!! You are so talented and creative. That’s all sounding positive with the Prof. I know chemo is daunting but you’ll face it, you’ll do it and the girls will be here, cheering you on when you’re smashing it and holding your hand if you need it.
Hi @jeml Well done and it must be so good to know you are one chemo away from finishing. If they don’t have a bell at your hospital then make sure you go and slap a bench! I had full chemo even though there was a chance that all the cancer was already gone. Long story but I had a previous consultant who went in four times unsuccessfully until I switched to Katherine Krupa and did chemo followed by a mastectomy. She said that they do the full works of treatment to make sure you get the best they can give you. I have changed my lifestyle quite considerably. I was overworking myself so am not going to work so hard as I feel stress didn’t help me. I was one of those women who couldn’t wait for it to be 9:30pm so that I could pour myself a large wine and soda and I’m ashamed to say that I enjoyed it with two sneaky cigarettes on the balcony every night. I knew it was bad and I wanted to kick it but I loved it. I had my last wine and cigarettes on 8th November 2023 but I didn’t realise it at the time. D Day was 9th November and I stopped abruptly. I was already vegetarian but now I am vegan and I eat a lot of anti-inflammatory foods, pulses, beans etc. Last night I made the Mediterranean Vegetable Stew from theanticancerkitchen.com. Before you all stop talking to me, I still love chips and chocolate but I try to counter them with dog-walking every day and eating healthily. I actually don’t miss the alcohol. I thought I would but on the odd occasion when I have a glass of wine, I find that it makes me sleepy and a bit befuddled and I prefer to be clear-headed.
I agree with you about hair loss too. I was so scared of going bald and becoming bloated from steroids. As it was, I didn’t get steroid bloat as I couldn’t take the things (madwoman alert!) and I found that losing my hair just didn’t matter at all. It’s been really liberating and I loved my wigs, headscarfs and hats. I actually feel my style has improved and I’ve embraced a new me. I love not having to dye, style, blow-dry, straighten blah-blah-blah… I have short, wavy dark hair and I love it!
Finally, well done on your fundraiser. You put me to shame. I must do something but always thought I would wait until treatment was over and there you are doing one before you’ve even finished chemo! How did you do it? Cake looks too good. Ah yes, that’s something else I haven’t given up. Far from it. I eat more of the stuff than ever. Now I think about it, THAT’S what’s taken over from alcohol.
Have a good weekend everyone.
Salbert
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