Don’t really know what to say to start. Never really thought I would be on a site like this. It’s a strange feeling.
I don’t even have diagnosed breast cancer. But cant help but having that niggling at the back of my mind, that its my kinda luck I will…
Went to the docs today as have had a dull ache on my left breast, just at the side, for a few months. I have also started getting a sharp pain right through my nipple. Im not sure if i am leaking fluid as i think I am still “drying up” since having my daughter (although that was over 2 years ago now!). So he had a feel and a look (delightful moment!) and although he couldnt find any lumps, he pointed out a “raised area” on my nipple that I havent always had! And more to the point, never noticed because i dont really pay attention to my breasts (silly i know!).
So, he is referring me to the breast clinic? Dont really know what to think about that. Its probably nothing since he didnt find a lump.But i have been so tired the last wee while and dont think i could take any more bad news. Not at this time of year.
My relationship is struggling, i start a new full time job after new year and i have 2 kids aged 2 and 3. Sorry to sound pathetic. i know others are coping with much worse. i feel about 40 years old and am only 21!! Thanks for reading (if u have got this far), and i appreciate any replies. xx
Sounds like you and me are kinda in the same situation (except I am a older…I am almost 33). I have a 15 month old daughter. I breast fed my daughter for six months but had to stop due to recurring infection. I had pains for the past month and saw the Doc about it. Although she did not mention any lumps during the exam she wrote a perscription (I’m in the US so it is a little different here)for a diagnostic mammo and ultra sound for the symptom of " new lump" (I still can’t find the darn lump…my breasts feel the same to me.) I am totally freaking out and I am so scared. I just moved to a new state and my husband travels a ton for work so I feel very alone in this process. Everyone on here is SO helpful, kind and supportive. I am so glad that I found this site.
When is your appointment? I’ll keep my fingers crossed for you. I don’t think that you sound pathetic at all. The waiting is so scary and if you are anything like me, your head may wander to dark places sometimes.
thanks for your reply. i dont have the appointment through yet but doc said they would “be in touch with one”. i only breast fed for 6 weeks and never had any problems. but my milk seems to have taken well longer on the left breast than the right" (unless its not milk but leaking instead!). will let you know when i get appointment through. glad u have found some comfort on this site. its not a nice feeling, being alone! hopefully i can feel the same. when is your appointment?? xx
You are understandably worried at the moment but I’m sure you’ll get support and information here.
I wondered if you might find it helpful read our factsheet about referral to breast clinic, it will give you information about what to expect from your appointment.
Here’s the link to the page on the site where it can be either downloaded or ordered:
Hi youngmummy , remember 9 out of 10 referred do not have breast cancer !!!
Do not google and scare yourselve. Try and keep it in perspective , u are only 21 and the odds are in your favour.I know u will have that scary doubt as we all have and it sucks. Did he refer u for an urgent referral If not be prepared to wait up to 6 weeks. If urgent it will be within 2 weeks . Keep askin questions on here meanwhile…
Thanks for reading (if u have got this far), and i appreciate any replies. xx