Hi, I would never recommend anyone to follow my example, as I am a bit of a nightmare for deciding what is best for me.
I am 64 now, diagnosed a year ago, 2.2cm Grade 3 invasive ductal with some DCIS, hormone receptive, HER2 neg - had WLE and 11 nodes removed, one node positive. 20 zaps of R/T last summer. Began letrozole - DEXA scan then indicated thinning bones/ostopoenia.
At the beginning of this journey, I made it clear that I would not entertain chemotherapy - which went against onco and consultant advice in view of Grade and node involvement ( it’s personal choice, even before it was discussed, I knew it was a path I would not consider ) - then I refused the bisphosphonates ( because I had to weigh up the letrozole effect on my bones against possible side effects of bisphosphs re: jaw necrosis - I don’t have good teeth, and the last thing I wanted was to factor losing teeth etc into the mix ).
About 3 months ago, I had onset of really bad pain in right side/hip area. I get back problems, I have some curvature of the spine anyway, and I regularly go for chiropractor treatment if I get problems, like sciatica, neck pain etc. Anyway, this pain was unlike any I’ve had before, and went on for weeks - it bounced to the left side as I was compensating in the way I walked - or hobbled - and I am someone who walks everywhere every day, and always have. I self-referred back to the Breast Clinic and had a full body bone scan. . . . . . nothing to see, except their concern again about my thinning bones, particularly in the hip area. . . . and the chiro treatment helped me get back to my ‘normal’.
So I haven’t taken letrozole for about 2 months now. My head is partly telling me that is irresponsible. The rest of me says that my quality of life totally depends on my being able to walk and get out of the house - so I take my AdCal tablets, and that’s about it.
I am an older person, I have no young dependants, and my adult kids all understand my take on life ( I had a mum who died in 2016 after 9 years of dementia in a care home, and it was truly a sad thing to see, and be so helpless about - my ‘mum’ wouldn’t have wanted to be living that existence ) and that for me it is always about quality of life.
As I say, I would never put my view on to others, and I have to take full responsibility for my decisions. I have always expressed my gratitude to the doctors and nursing staff who have looked after me in this situation, as I have had excellent care.