This seems an appropriate place to put this thread as it is just about life in general and returning to reality / normality.
I have reached a point in my illness when I am not quite well but no longer feel dreadfully ill. I have had a mastectomy, axillary clearance, chemo, and rads. Now waiting for hormone therapy in a few wks time.
It has been some ride, a definate roller coaster from my early thoughts about dying too young, through being disfigured and losing my sexuality through surgery, then utter illness and wondering could I go on during chemo, to complete fatique during chemo and rads, with limitless side effects and little interest in life other than my kids and gran kids.
Just for good measure I have been living with a man who totally gave up on his working life and became impossible to live with at a time when I needed a strong prop most.
Now I have been treatment free for nearly 3 wks I can see that life can return to normal. I have visited my place of work, had a family holiday in Wales, all be it a wet one! And this wk end spent time with extended family who arranged this as a celebration for me coming through such a tough time.
We hired a barn in the newlands valley nr Keswick. I thought I knew the lakes well but this is a most beautiful place, so peaceful. We roughed it a bit, but spent the time talking about everything but cancer, sang songs listened to various clever musicians and most importantly laughed, a lot!
I was ready for bed by 9 pm but stayed up and awake till the end as i didn’t want to miss anything. Getting ready to go there that morning I was listening to the radio in the shower and found myself dancing, yes, dancing. Can’t remember the last time I did that.
All in all I felt alive again. I just wanted to share this with you all as I have had my very low moments on here and it has really helped to off load. Now I feel stronger, strong enough to ‘prop’ up someone else, back to normal, well almost, I’m pretty knackered from the wk end and about to retire for the night, but things seem rosier tonight.
Hope I can help where needed, and hope this thread helps those of you who are in a dark place just now to know there is hope and things will get better.
Irene