I’m so sorry to hear what you’re going through at work @truffles00.
I’m sure that someone on the forum will be able to share their experience with you, and I hope you’re able to find a way to deal with it that works for you.
In the meantime, there was a bit of a discussion about this topic on the forum some years ago, which you may find useful to read: Insensitive work colleagues - Life after a breast cancer diagnosis / Work, finance and travel - Breast Cancer Now forum
Please also know that our nurses are here if you’d ever like to chat things through. They can be reached on our free helpline on 0808 800 6000 which is open Monday to Friday 9am-4pm and 9am-1pm Saturday.
Thinking of you,
Lucy