How to request a breast exam with no classic symptoms?

How would I go about requesting a breast exam with no classic symptoms?

I am 27 and for a long time I have felt there is something different about by right breast. It is bigger than the other and that’s not something I noticed until approx a year ago. A mole appeared on my nipple (tho it looks healthy) and most notably this breast is much more sensitive than the other. I always have pains in just that one during periods and I can’t stand that nipple touching anything.

I am now pregnant and getting more anxious that something is wrong. I want to be around for my baby. I have examined my breasts myself but both feel lumpy and I just have no idea what I’m doing. A professional exam would hopefully put my mind at ease but I just don’t know how to ask for this. 

During covid it’s so hard to get an appointment for anything. Any advice? Does it sound like something could be wrong? 

Hi Christy

keep remembering that breast cancer is still unusual in your age group - not impossible but not expected. Since you noticed all the differences before your pregnancy, I’d say that anything different now, like both being lumpy, will be pregnancy-related. BUT that’s not enough. You are perfectly entitled to ask to speak to a GP about your worries and, if the details you give them warrant it, they’ll arrange a breast examination, either with a GP or a nurse.

Don’t think you’re being a nuisance and they’re too busy to see us. People still get ill. They are still seeing patients but are screening carefully. Emphasise your fears/anxieties about it and you’ll get your appointment.  Request outright, if you feel you’re being fobbed off. Only an examination is going to set your mind at rest!

Incidentally, my breast cancer showed no classic symptoms. You don’t have to have a lump to get your breasts checked. One thing I would say is to ask them to show you how to examine your breasts (though they will be changing a lot) so you get used to how they feel yourself. Then examine yourself thoroughly every month. No quick swipe in the shower!

Meantime, congratulations. I hope you go on to enjoy your pregnancy xx