Im Home

Hello ladies,

Well im back home and lying up in bed and have to stay here for 24 hours…not very happy about that !!!
Im very sore as had alot of bleeding and the bandges & nipple ring (its a sponge that goes all the way around) was that bloody that they had to change it even tho it is ment to be left on for the 2 weeks. So with all the prodding about im more sore that i think i would of been.

Im very tired as i only got 45mins sleep last night. so with a little hope i will sleep tonight.
LJ… I would give the hotel a very low rating…not even a cup of tea never mind a tray!!!
Ask me all the questions you can think of lovey… just cant think of anything to tell you at the mo as iv got a bit of a jelly brain!!

claire xxx

THANK YOU ALL for your well wishes… your all the best !!! xxxxx
Dawn how you feeling lovey?? XX

Welcome home Claire. Glad to hear you are OK although sore. Lets hope you are now sorted and that this is the beginning of the end for you with regards to this s**t. Make sure you stay in your bed as you have been told and rest, will help you in the long run. Sure that lovely hubby of yours will do whatever he can. He had a bit of banter with LJ, as she was missing you loads last night and I went to bed early (10pm), can’t do the late nights like you lot.

I am ok. No sickness, just getting a bit nervous for 5pm when having hair shaved off. But needs to be done, then can move on. But enough about me. This is about you and hoping you are OK and on the mend.

We heard that the “hotel” was naff, and took so many times to find a wheelchair and cup of tea. Least now you are home, you will get brekkie in bed and tea. Need to find a bell for you to ring when you want something. Or take your mobile with you and ring the landline when attention is needed.

You take good care of yourself and don’t be worrying about any of us, til you are better.

Take care and lots of love and best wishes.
Lots of Love
Dawn
xx

Claire,

Welcome home, sweetie.

I do hope it’s not too long before the soreness is gone and you start to feel more like yourself. It looks as though you have a good hubby there to look after you! Make the most of it, hon.

Lots of love and (very gentle) hugs from beano x

WELCOME HOME! Hope you manage to get some much needed rest and sleep! SO glad you made it home today and hope things heal up very quickly. Take it easy!

much love to you & thinking of you as you wait for results.

Nanny

claire!!!

Welcome home!!! We have all missed you!!! hope you are in less pain and that you are enjoying the rest!!! I also hope you are feeling ok!!!

I have one question to ask and the rest can wait till your jelly brain has set a bit …KITCHEN SINK???

thanks for getting colin to let us know how you were yesterday!!!

Will keep my eye out for you but only return when you can don’t force your self!!!

Sending you the biggest most gentle hugs and lots of strong love!!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

going back to the sink…if I was to ask for something whilst being stuck in hospital I would make sure it cost alot more than a kitchen sink LOL unless it is gold plated of course xxxx

Hello ladies,
Well im soooooooooooo fed up sitting in bed. Iv still not had a sleep even tho im knackered. Might have to ask GP for sleeping pills to knock me out. I dont feel myself really at the mo, feel sick and really low (plus cant go to the toilet). Want to cry but not infront of anyone…you all know that feeling!!!

Oh the kitchen sink… I was looking through the paper last night and saw a sink and text colin and told him i wanted it… told you i was bloody weired!!

How did your pre med go LJ… did you get the answers you wanted… what did they tell you??

claire xx

Welcome home Claire

dont push yourself to hard, it will take a while to recover and the slower you take it the better it will be in the long run.

Not sure about the kitchen sink thing but is your son behaving at the moment?

love Tracey
xx

Hi Claire,

Glad you’re doing ok, I’m sorry I’m a bit crap with sending my messages, I dont get online everyday, well, not when it doesn’t involve working anyway!! boo…

I would make the most of having your feet up and it will be business as usual before you know it lol, it is frustrating when you cant sleep and your sore and you cant go to the loo and the kids want a cuddle and thats the one thing you cant do and and and…

Thinking of you honey, take care

Heidi xx

welcome bk claire, i,m so pleased the op went well, sry your sore tho, just think its over now babe, you can now heal, how did the cigs go
just rest and try and get some sleep if you cant then get some pills from the doc

thinking of your poor boobies ouch ouch double ouch

love
cee

Thank you all for your well wishes…
well iv went and done it… iv broken the emotional brick wall… iv cried buckets and cant stop now iv started.
Didnt think it would take the op for it to hit home.

how r u all tonight xxxxx

Hi Claire

when i was in hospital my nurse warned me that i would feel emotionally after a few days, she was spot on, the day i was leaving hospital i cried for ages in the toilets, anyone would think i didnt want to go home. weird isnt it, just let it out it will do you good.

Tracey
xxx

claire!!!

sending you lots of hugs xxx

thank u girls,
Tracey ur nurse was so right, colin cant even look at me and im off then he asks whats up now and im bubbling that he is shouting… but clearly hes not just wanting me not to hide and cry.

LJ how did you get on today at ur pre op xxxx

claire xx

Glad you are safely home claire. Please rest.

I accepted you invitation to see how things got on as my op is due on the 20th i also have ductal and have not idea what the procedure is. When you are feeling stronger can you please send me a private message and let me know what to expect please.

Wishing you well girl and sending you loads of get well hugs.

Julie xxxx

Hi Claire,

Hope you rest up now and take care,

Kat x

Good evening claire!!!

I’m glad your up and a bit more awake!! how is the pain?

My pre op was a waste of time no forms to fill in nurse said she doesnt know of my procedure and showed me my notes which have frightened me more as to what theyre looking for!!! The only thing she did say is they have changed the ward i’m going on and will be an inpatient not a day case… and that I will have a meeting with consultant first in the morning

Have they told you what they have done to you? or what they think they found? when do you go back??

Somehow this message altho written hours ago didnt apear so I’m sorry I have had to write it again xxxxxxx

I am ok really just tired …worst thing for me this week was having to take my boys to school as this all kicked off first week of the holidays and had to inform their teachers/headteacher and as I am treasurer of the school PTA I have had to tell a few of them as I do all the school meetings and a lot of the fundraising…That was hard as I don’t know or like them all very much and didn’t want false sympathy and everyone going on about it behind my back…but I knew if I didnt my lovelly mother would when I’m in next week only she would tell them everything but 10 times worse and no doubt probably still will!! but at least I might get away with the humiliation of them al staring and not daring to ask this way!

JULIE I am having same op as claire only in both breasts next tuesday 4th … are you having 1 or 2 done? how are you doing with it all…Claire and I have found this devastating sending you big hug xx

hi sweet,
Didnt see my surgeon before or after the op. His registra came to see me this morning and said she was in on the op. She then asked to check it out and went round to the wrong boob. When i corrected her she just laughed. I asked her where they had cut me. She said she couldnt remember then changed her mind telling me the cut was up and down. When BC nurse came to see me she said that on my notes they had cut me in a round shape…but when changing the dressing as soaked in blood the BC nurse said they were all wrong i was cut straight across on an angle… do any of them know!!!

What did you see that has scared you more lovey???

Im still really tired and really cant stop crying so i will fill you in more tomorrow, but do feel free to ask anything as thats not im crying about
.
Julie will message you tomorrow sweetheart xxx

claire xxxx