Hi Peace
No it’s not painful as such… everyone has different experiences on chemo it depends on so much, including what combination of chemo drugs you’re given and your general state of health and fitness and wellbeing etc etc. I am receiving my chemo drugs through a canula in my right arm (as I had lump and lymph nodes removed from left breast so not allowed any needles in left arm) and the only “uncomfortable” bit is when the nurse is finding the vein to insert the canula. But I don’t know whether you might be getting a hickman line as you mention you have to heal up first? I don’t know anything abot them, sorry.
my advice is get yourself organised before you start. Get a wig that you like (good link from this site to Direct Wigs, not expensive and very good customer service) and get your hairdresser to give it a bit of a style for you, get some scarves as well (Tie Rack have excellent selection or look in John Lewis accessories dept if there is one in your town) then IF your hair starts coming out you don’t have to panic-buy headwear. I got one wig and one scarf in advance and shopped round for loads more later on.
also get organised with “stuff that needs doing” eg I made sure that my flat was as clean and tidy as could be, all laundry up to date, and that my cupboards and fridge were well stocked so that if I felt rough after chemo I would just be able to sit on my bum without worrying that there was housework or shopping that needed doing.
my perception of chemo was that I would feel exhausted and be throwing up constantly. I have not been sick at all, they give you anti-sickness drugs before the chemo and some to take home, which you can take if you want or need but I am not bothering I only need to take one or two on the evening of chemo-day but that’s just me. I have had 3 out of 6 FEC and this is what I find, but again this is just me…
Feel OK when I come back from hospital but a bit lethargic due to boredom of sitting on arse all morning waiting for my turn. DO NOT eat your fave foods on chemo day because if you get queasy you will develop a bad association with them and not fancy them at all for ages and ages. I always have a pizza on chemo day cos it is my least favourite food so if I go off it I don’t care. I haven’t had a curry since Feb 
First couple of days after chemo I find I get tired and have to go to bed early. By the end of the week I am not going to bed quite so early.
Nasty taste in mouth a bit like after a kebab if you go to sleep without brushing teeth, yuk, I find eating sweets like sherbet lemons helps.
You might need to drink loads of fluid and you will wee a LOT and your wee might smell stronger than usual, this is commonplace.
Week 2 better than week 1, week 3 feel almost normal, then it all starts again.
Oh and you will fart like a goodun as well.
Come and see us on the chemo board when you’re about to start, and let us know how you get on xxx