Jeeez, Drida, two at the same time?!! That’s blummin unbelievable, to say the least, and be polite!!!
Sweetheart, I thought I was unlucky with another “separate” primary diag, just a year later. First was a small, but grade 3, oestrogen +ve tumour > mastectomy + total ANC (standard at that time 2006)
2nd (literally a year, 2007) - Not related to first, i.e. was another “Primary”. But also Her +ve. Cannot remember what grade! as by that time, I just felt “Get rid of the bleep” with another mastectomy and ANC.
I caught both early enough to not require chemo. My choice of mastectomy and ANC, as oppo lumpectomies, meant no rads required (in those days). I wanted immediate recon with both, and no rads meant no tissue damage to prevent such. As it was, immed recon didn’t happen with either, due to other life “stuff”/traumas/losses getting in the way. Took until 2014 to finally embark on initial silicon recon op. 7 and 8 yrs later !!
Where are you up to with things at this moment/date, Drida??
Please keep us in touch with how you’re doing. I hope there’s someone out there who’s shared similar to you? I’m not wishing it, obviously. Goes without saying.
Also goes without saying, I wish you STRENGTH to deal with and overcome it all. We’re here for you, to support, whatever your needs. Sometimes just having a kindred someone, even if it’s not the same, but just to listen, can help.
Sending you lots of love and healing thoughts
DellyDingDong xxxxxx