Hi there
I actually haven’t posted in quite some time, so no-one on here will probably know me, but I’m 31, 1st diagnosed at 27 and again at 29 with the same cancer and treatment as you. On my 2nd round of chemo, my periods stopped after a month, in August 2006.
I am in menopause but still get the odd bit of spotting, but like you, I’ve no children. I never gave much thought to having children and I’m still not sure I would want them even if I could, but I guess what annoyed me was the fact that the option had been taken away to have my own, but there are so many children in the world that need homes, that I would consider adoption if it was something I wanted that badly.
The only advice I can really offer in terms of practicality is get fans!! I don’t mean people that adore you, but cool air fans *lol* I suffer quite a bit from flushes. Not so much now, but my surface temperature would sky rocket so I have a fan in my home, 1 on my desk in work and a handheld that I don’t leave home without!
Some suffer from night sweats and I did for about 2 - 3 months, but that was partially due to chemo. If you do, the trick is to regulate your temperature. Try and not go from very hot to very cold in seconds as that increases it. I did the trick of going out to the garden in the middle of the night and gave myself a cold for a month. You live and learn right?
Some of the girls on here have chillow pillows which apparently help too, but I was the opposite and found a really hot bath helped.
My emotions would run riot at times too, but I would always give myself a stern talking to, to remind myself it was my hormones. Pretty much feels like PMS.
Like most things, maintain a healthy diet, exercise and it does make it easier! There are herbal treatments you can get too from most chemists that can help, but I didn’t take them, like evening primrose oil, but the best sources of advice I find are on boards like this from women going through it and for menopause, your gynacologist.
I think we all get the life is passing us by feeling now and again, but the thing to remember too is everyone has something to deal with in their lives and it all affects us differently. Its a pain having to strip off in the middle of the night because of a flush, traipse to the hospital for checkups and scans and wear an elastic sleve because of my lymphoedema or even have an itch on my scar, but this just makes us who we are and a hellova lot stronger because of it!
Good luck with it and just think… no more period cramps!! ![:slight_smile: :slight_smile:](https://bcnproduction.discoursehosting.net/images/emoji/twitter/slight_smile.png?v=12)
Moira P
xx