Hello worriedmum
Thanks for posting.
In the first few weeks after surgery, it is important to be careful about lifting anything too heavy, and this might include lifting things above your head. However, it is important that your daughter gradually returns to normal activities whilst remaining cautious with any lifting or activity that places excessive strain on her affected arm, as this may increase her risk of developing Lymphoedema.
To reduce the risk of lymphoedema developing, maintaining a healthy weight and exercising (as able) will reduce the burden on the lymphatic system and trying to use her arm normally. You are more likely to increase your risk of lymphoedema by overly protecting your arm and not using it enough.
It is likely that your daughter was given exercises to do after surgery to enable her to get back her full range of movement. It is important to keep doing the exercises until she gets back the range of movement she had before her operation. If she is going to have radiotherapy, continuing with the exercises will help her shoulder flexibility. This will also help her get back to doing her partly manual job.
As @edp says recovery is important but in time your daughter should feel strong enough to lift things above her head, and many women regularly lift weights in this way as part of their exercise regimen.
As @lisa49 says seeking a second opinion on this from another member of her breast cancer team would be helpful.
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