Looking to find like minded BC sufferers

I know I don’t even like flowers or chocolates…at least a plant please but preferably a nail polish or a book or anything else really. How ungrateful are we?!

I am glad you are doing well even if it is for now it is just one hurdle at a time isn’t it.

I didn’t mind Christmas as at least I could laze about and watch TV to distract myself without feeling guilty now its like get back to work and be normal and I feel like shouting BUT I still have cancer!

All time low the Kale Smoothie - that is the first thing my Sister in Law said on hearing about my diagnosis - have Kale Smoothies - I am not telling her you have tried it!! - But let me have the recipe please and maybe I should try it…

4th op that sounds so unfair - although how big was your boob to start with if they can keep taking more ?!! - Sorry is that too much when we have only just met! Will I get kicked out of Cancer Club?

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Do you think it would be wrong to ask people to send presents that you actually want? :rofl:

I am not so organised that I have a recipe for kale smoothie. I just bunged a load of fruit in and grimaced as I chucked a handful of kale in the top. Then I added some kind of super immune boost powder that I got off Amazon and although it looked like the sludge from the bottom of a pond, it was actually drinkable.

I did have a fair old pair of knockers. I was always grateful for them in the late 1980s when I went out and my large bouffant hairdo had gone wrong as they took the attention off my head. Now my poor right tit dents inwards and looks like a mouth that has lost its dentures.

Never too much! Hey, if we get kicked out of Cancer Club we will just have to start our own.

Salbert
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We sure will, got to stay strong.
We are all warriors.
Take care, thanks for asking.xx

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Hi @sarahc_123

I’m nearly 3 weeks since my last and still having some side effects. Sore, watery eyes due to losing most of my lashes. Swollen ankles and lower legs, iffy tummy and tiredness.

The first few weeks were too bad, had at least 3/4 days feeling really rough, I did have my Covid booster between week 1 and 2, so that could have affected how I felt. I had a UTI after week 2, which can be common, GP prescribed antibiotics. A couple of weeks later I had a sore throat, it was due to thrush, another common thing to happen, so give Nystan and it cleared quickly. Week 3 I had an allergic reaction to the chemo and it was stopped half way through and due to being at an outreach it wasn’t restarted once I was stable. Unfortunately, I was also sick and they couldn’t get a doctor to prescribe anti sickness via a drip, which I’d already had a premeds. After this reaction I was given tablets to take at home before, the day of and the day after chemotherapy to prevent it happening again (dexamethasone (steroid), Famotidine (antacid) and ceterizine ( antihistamine). I had no further reactions after this.

I was taking my daily temperature and recording my side effects and after week 8 I had another sore throat but didn’t feel right, so off the GP and my temperature was 37.9 so phone call to cancer centre helpline. Called me in, took bloods and temp went down before I arrived. Given oral antibiotics and sent home after 6 hours of monitoring. The weekly chemo was delayed. Unfortunately later that week my temperature was up again over 38 so called helpline and was told I’d have to stay in. That was 6 days in hospital, 4 different antibiotics, a mega cold sore, had oral acyclovir and my liver bloods went off the scale. They thought it was so much medication and chemotherapy overwhelming my liver. Advised more bloods and liver scan to be organised.

The following week the chemo went ahead as normal, by now I was only having 2 good days, one of which was back in the chair for next infusion. I then finished the final 4 weeks with severity and length of side effects increasing as I mentioned at the beginning.

I cold capped the whole 12 weeks, the first 10/15 minutes were the worse I tried paracetamol but it didn’t make a difference. I found distracting my self was best, reading or watching a video was best. I’ve only lost two small patches above me ears, as I wore my glasses u dear the cap (nurses should have told me not too, I found out online) and obviously daily glasses wear does rub. 98% hair retained and some shedding which is hardly noticeable. I had a lot of hair before. I had my bob cur to a pixie which I isn’t need to do ( cancer centre info suggested you cut it, most advice now is only cut it if your hair is very long) https://coldcap.com/ https://paxmanscalpcooling.com/ or wwwcancerhaircarre.co.uk for good advise caring for hair whether capping or not.
Also wwwlookgoodfeelbetter.co.uk. I painted my nails from week 4/5 after LGFB course, maybe I wouldn’t have the issues if I had started from the beginning. Recommend daily moisturising and balm for cuticle, file, strengthening treatment, followed by polish and topcoat, clear and repeat every 3 days to check nails, toes weekly. If you do the course online they will send you goodies or face to face you receive in the day. The is the same for the makeup and skincare (goody bag was huge)

Overall the side effects are cumulative and you have to allow time to feel better afterwards. I am continuing with Herceptin injections until September and some side effects can be similar. I have my first sole injection tomorrow so will find out soon. Letrozole starting after radiotherapy finishes in two weeks.

Hope this all makes sense and helps. I forget to mention the chemo brain is real. Can’t think of words, can’t spell, forget things. Depending how old you are very similar to menopausal brain fog.:smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

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Hey! I’m doing really good today thanks- i had reiki yesterday and feel on top of the world today! I had my first reiki session a few weeks ago, in my worst week of chemo when i have 2 chemo drugs and immunotherapy in one day. I didn’t feel immediately better after that first session but noticed a real improvement in my energy for several days afterwards, so thought I’d try it again before my next cycle.
I’ve done 2 cycles already, 6 more to go. Acupuncture helps with the side effects too, i have that weekly - i wouldn’t be sleeping much without it.
I’m not really doing the mindfulness regularly anymore, but it was helpful at the time, before my treatment plan took on a proper shape. That was the worst bit by far for me, the not knowing the full picture and feeling like I don’t really have any control of my life. Actually starting chemo and going in every week is the easy bit, and it’s working! My tumour has shrunk from 30 mm to 10 mm after only 2 cycles of treatment. Unfortunately i still have to go through another 6 cycles though!
I know what you mean about keeping busy, I’m very task driven as well. Mindfulness has helped me feel ok with not having so much energy on the rough days, to slow down and not fight against it so much, if that makes sense? Anyway, i hope you’re getting answers yourself and finding things less difficult x

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Not at all it should be like a wedding gift list -,I mean there really needs to be more perks to getting cancer so far my main positive is I do feel the love more from my other half and my friends.

Perhaps if we all grow our hair long like mermaids then it will cover a multitude of sins?

Deal if we get kicked out we will start our own club. In fact i thought I had been kicked out as tried to reply to this earlier via email and got one back saying NO!!

X

Yes, I’m feeling the love too. Maybe I’m not such a bad old wazzock after all.

Mermaid hair when we are possibly about to lose it all might be a tad optimistic for now. I may go for a full mermaid wig. Green or purple. I’m serious! :flushed:

How bad would that be? To get kicked out of Cancer Club. That’s possibly the first proper laugh I’ve had today. I thank you!

I have my appointment with my consultant at 10:50 tomorrow morning. I have so much nervous energy that I have just done laps of Wickes while my husband was searching for caulk and buckets. Up and down the aisles I went, doing grounding tapping exercises on my shoulders and thighs as I went. I imagine that anyone looking at the security cameras would have been radioing their colleagues to advise them to keep an eagle eye out but give madwoman a wide berth.

X

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I’m back on top thank you @twinkletits
Was missing my boobs- and my reconstruction (which is tummy + implant) kept getting in my way - it doesn’t move and I can’t feel it, so I often bash it on doorframes as I walk through if I misjudge :joy: I have down days, but I find it hilarious most of the time! You have to laugh… xx

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@twinkletits and @salbert - you need to start your own Breast Cancer Comedy Channel! Brilliant!!

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Goodness, that sounds pretty tough and quite a lot of other stuff going on too… you poor thing. Im surprised you can have an allergic reaction on Week 3 when 1 and 2 were okay. That’s slightly worrying… I will just have to go with it. I’m cold capping too and have very thick hair just above my shoulders so hope it works. I’m not looking forward to that bit. Any of it to be honest. I’ve only just found out about nails so will make sure I follow your advice. Thank you so much for the lengthy reply, much appreciated. xx

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The allergic reaction can happen in the first few weeks, the nurses told me that your body takes the chemotherapy for an infusion of two and then your body suddenly recognises it and says no, I need to get this out. That’s the allergic reaction.

They ask you to tell them if you feel hot, or sore back, or can’t breathe to name a few reactions. They like you to say if something doesn’t feel right.

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Wazzock? That sounds like a West Country comment. You be from zider country!

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No, but I was first called a wazzock by my Bristolian cousin who is! 10 out of 10 to @isitreallyme

You get a free kale smoothie recipe!!!

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Thanks for the suggestion @sarahc_123

Everyone tells you to stay positive and laughter helps massively with that. If @twinkletits wants to be irreverent and laugh in the face of cancer then I am 100% in!

When we are on that emotional rollercoaster it may help to propel us out the troughs and back up to the peaks. That’s that rollercoaster you’re not strapped into but which we are gonna ride with our arms in the air screaming “F*** YOU, CANCER!”

And after that rallying post I’d best get ready to stride into my appointment like Boudicca and leave again a blubbering collapsed jelly!

Have a good day Thursday all!
Xx

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You get a tummy tuck at the same time ???
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Good luck with your appointment today - everything crossed for you.

Sorry that’s insensitive of me saying grown our hair - I’m very early on in this process and don’t know if I’m in denial as in surely I won’t have to have chemo OR is it PMA and I won’t have to have chemo. I’m sooooo not pretty enough to lose my hair. My beautiful 22 year old daughter said if you do lose your hair I’ll shave my hair in solidarity and I replied F@@k off you’ll still look gorgeous and I’ll still look shit in comparison :joy:
Then my other friend (who has hair down by her bum) said she would offer as well but her hair is the only thing she likes about hersel!

The Poor security guards in Wickes tracking you do you think your photo is now on their notice board to keep an eye out for you next time?
Does the tapping work ? Never tried it.

I had my first MRI yesterday - no one warned me it would be so loud - what was the point of the headphones? No cod liver oil for my nipples though does that mean my nipples were already erect?? :weary:
Have you ever watched SAS who dares wins? The last task where you are put in a stress position with a hood on and then loud annoying noises are played in well that describes the MRI AND I would so win SAS :joy:
At one point I thought what if it is actually the fire alarm going off and everyone else has left the building and I’m just laying in like a right tit (pun intended).

Anyway I survived it and now back to waiting for results….

Let me know how you get on today when you’re ready x

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Update - large holes - didn’t touch the floor - I kept my eyes shut like a toddler - if I can’t see me then no one else can either lol x

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Apparently I’m a Wagon - an endearing Irish expression ….

Good news about the tumor shrinking.

I asked my mate about reiki and who knew years ago she trained to do it so I’m going to be all over that now - thanks.

I tried to breathe calmly through the MRI but how can you when all my body wanted to do was breath in time with the clanging! More practice required x

So what does that mean for you now if your body says NO! ? X