Hi All, hope everyone is doing well …sadly my mum passed this morning and im feeling pretty negative about this dreaded c monster, even more so now, thinking i wont survive it, had the breast mri yesterday and now i’m thinking it has spread, i get the results back on the 13th january and im scared witless of what they are going to say …sorry for such a negative post i really dont know how i am going to get through this without my mum
So sorry for your loss of your mum.
Today is a day for lots of virtual hugs and you shouldn’t ever feel as though you should be apologising for how you are feeling and posting on here. (IMHO “should” is one of the worst words in the English language)
We are all here for you to help and support you in whatever ways we can
Sorry about your Mum eeyore… what a crappy time for you 
Dear_ eeyore, _
My heart goes out to you, at the terrible time lots of love and a very big hug . No amount of words can make life easier at the moment can’t imagine what you’re going through,
Please keep fighting just as mum would of wanted you to and try to remember the good time you both had together, along with the excellent advise mums pass on to us….we never realise at the time but mark there words time and time again.
Wishing you lots of luck with your treatment, keep posting, let us know how you are doing. With love Tili 
Dear Eeyore,
Just so sorry to hear that you’ve just lost your lovely mum.
Sending you a big hug.
Will be thinking of you, especially for when your mri results come through next week.
Take care.
Sandpiper
x