Mastectomy shock

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I first had a lumpectomy in my right breast12 years ago when I lived in France.  I had wonderful treatment including a full node clearance.  I had special physio to avoid lymphadema and was lucky.  I didn’t have any swelling.   5 weeks ago I found a lump.  Living back in England I wasn’t sure what to expect but I needn’t have worried.  The system whisked me up and after a series of checks, tests and scans, it was decided that I should have a full mastectomy of my left breast.  To my astonishment I only had one night in hospital ayd then went home to be looked after by a wonderful hospital at home service which we are lucky enough to have in this area.  The surgeon removed 3 nodes as a precaution but everything was clear.

 

Apart from only havin g one night in hospital the other shock was the way I am feeling now.  It is SOOOOO unfortable,  I feel as though I am in a strait jacket.  I am in my 70s and I am not at all vain about  the way I look but boy I do not like the feeling.  I am so glad I found this forum because now I realise that it is fairly normal.  I am being diligent with the exercises. I am going to see the oncologist tomorrow but I am not at all certain that I want to have chemo.  I have a cruise booked for the 25 October and I am determined to go.  Thank you so much for sharing your experiences with us all.  

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Hello Vaidanne

I had a mastectomy & reconstruction in early 2014 followed by lymph gland removal in June the same year, I would say just persevere with the exercises. It will feel a strain a first but just follow them through (easy ones at first, graduating to more energetic ones) you WILL gradually lose that straightjacket feeling. As to your upcoming cruise, good idea. I had to cancel one due to surgery but re-booked for a few weeks later and was so pleased I went (with my Breastcare team’s blessing)- pure luxury and total pampering, and even if you can’t do the energetic shore trips you will have a wonderful relaxing time. 

Hope you feel much better soon.

PoppyJ

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Thank you poppy. This forum is so useful especially for someone like me who is alone. You have cheered me up. I will let you know after my meeting if i am going on my cruise!!!