Looking for a bit of advice.
Background to what I’ve had so far:- Lumpectomy surgery in left breast to remove 2 cancerous tumours (which were later discovered to be attached when pathology done) and 2 further cavity shave surgeries, they still didn’t get clear margins which they have said indicates that the problem cells are more widespread in my breast than first thought and they are now recommending I have a mastectomy.
I now have to decide what order to have my further treatments, as there are a couple of options to think about:-
Option 1:
Mastectomy (without reconstruction) in a couple of weeks, followed by Chemotherapy (due to lymph node positive) and then Radiotherapy with hormone therapy drugs.
With an option to pursue a delayed reconstruction - but it could be 2-3yrs to wait for reconstruction and won’t know if reconstruction is even possible until I meet with that plastic surgeon & anaesthetist for that type of surgery (as I have a brain AVM)
Option 2:
Have Chemotherapy next and meet with the plastic surgeon to discuss having a mastectomy with immediate reconstruction after I’ve recovered from chemo - then radiotherapy with hormone therapy drugs.
The reconstruction options are complicated and varied and with it being a much longer surgery, my brain AVM throws in an extra complication for the surgeons/anaesthetists to consider.
Also, I don’t know how long chemo affects my immune system, so don’t know if it’s better to have the mastectomy whilst still being fighting fit, rather than after chemo when my immune system or blood platelets might be lower.
I don’t know if a DIEP reconstruction would even be possible, as I’ve had an emergency c-section in the past - my Consultant said they would have to scan my tummy to see if a DIEP was a viable option.
I wasn’t able to make a decision whilst with my Consultant - they are giving me a bit of time to really think through both options.
I’m trying to get my head around the news.
Can anyone share their experience with having a mastectomy with either immediate or delayed reconstruction or anyone who decided that reconstruction wasn’t for them for whatever reason?
Also, anyone who has advice on whether having surgery after chemotherapy makes any difference re. recovery from surgery - was your immune system /blood platelets recovered enough from chemo to cope well with surgery?
I am also concerned about how I would mentally/emotionally cope with being flat on one side for possibly 2-3yrs (whilst waiting for reconstruction) or possibly for life - what are your experiences with this side of the cancer journey?
Struggling to decide what to do and all advice / peoples’ experiences much appreciated xx