Hi Finty,
Well I was told it was just my breast to be zapped and not my underarms and no issues with deodorant and sunscreen - I could wear them - this was the oncologist. Nodes were not discussed - but then as I had high grade DCIS the surgeon said that nodes were not involved, so I did not ask about them.
After that no comment/advice offered at planning so I went to the first rads with both sunscreen/deodorant on [that’s common apparently according to the techs I met] but they treated me anyway. Firstly before treatment we had a long chat when all this came up because apparently the fields are clipping part of my underarm and stop 2cm below the dimple in the lower neck. They showed me the pictures of the fields from the planning on a body image they had made up of me at planning [amazing eh?]. So the areas where I normally wear sunscreen on my upper chest [and where all my clothes will not cover] are affected - it even goes a fair way down the side of my body under the arm - gosh I was flabbergasted, I just had no idea this was so comprehensive.
So I asked could I wear sunscreen and remove it before treatment, then reapply but they seemed unsure as they had not been asked before - does that seem unlikely to you it does to me? The weekends seem not to be an issue to me but apparently they are as well but I still cannot understand why.
Sorry but they were not precise with me and no I have not heard anything about an exit point either - what is that? I’ve only been told to take care of the front area not my back.
Has anyone the ability to explain to me what keeping the skin neutral means?
I think I might go to Holland & Barrett tomorrow, and read the labels, but so far label reading has not helped that much. I’m trying to get hold of my friend to make some sense of this but no joy so far.
I’m a bit fed up with this now. First the screening service tells me I can go home from my recall, once they had dealt with my cysts, then they have a re-think and change their minds and do a pretty traumatic core biopsy. Then say they have found ‘an abnormality’ but they categorically state at the time ‘it is not cancer’ but they were keen to remove it for my safety. So after a lot of persuasion I finally agreed. The surgeon also said she felt it was not cancer and ‘see you for the all clear’ after the first op. Then it is cancer after all and I needed additional surgery as they missed the margin - which was clearly marked out by a wire - the wire was in the final histology section of the excision instead of the middle. 2 more ops in fact since mistakes were made during the second excision as well and I had a haematoma excision the same day [that was nasty as well]. So the rads seem to be required. Now apparently I am being under informed about just what the rads involve. It’s not as if I am not asking questions, I just fell fobbed off and told the bare minimum. Given all this what are the bets this is going to stop anytime soon?
I know I am possibly one very lucky woman and obviously I’m really grateful that it was found early and at an easily treatable stage [and sometimes pretty freaked that it nearly got dismissed as nothing] but this is tinged with all this ongoing hoo hah that has now been going on for six months - frankly I’ve really had enough I want my life back.
After all this settles down it looks like I will need to have plastic surgery next year to both breasts to restore some form of symmetry. This DCIS, in comparison to most issues I’ve seen here,is a minor problem and a very early discovery. It seems never ending to me - I have to ask how do you ladies cope with it all?
Sorry to rattle on but I am sure you can understand how I feel.