Hi blueparakeet
Thanks for posting
It sounds like a difficult time for you. It’s natural to wonder if your cancer might have been diagnosed sooner and it’s understandable that you have lost confidence in your treatment team because of this.
Breast imaging such as mammograms and ultrasound will not always identify cancer. Breast ultrasound can help to show if a lump is fluid filled or solid. A breast cyst is a fluid filled lump and fluid may be drawn off if the lump is large or painful. Fluid is usually only sent for testing if it looks unusual, for example if it’s blood stained. . On the other hand, a solid lump identified on ultrasound would usually require a biopsy to confirm a diagnosis
At times like this, it’s important that you feel you have a good relationship with the healthcare professionals looking after you. This helps you talk over all of your care, treatment and concerns in an open and safe way. Many people decide to explore transferring their care to another specialist or treatment team because of difficulties in communication and loss of trust.
It sounds as though you would prefer to have your care transferred to a different breast surgeon. You can ask if there is another breast surgeon that can oversee your care at your hospital as mentioned by @Frances55. Your breast care nurse, or if you are in England the Patient Advice and Liaison Service (PALS) department at your hospital, will tell you how to do this. See the links below for who to speak to if you live in one the other UK countries. If there is no other breast surgeon at your treatment hospital, you can ask your GP or your current treatment team about having your care transferred to another hospital.
If you have your surgery with a surgeon at your current hospital, you might still wish to consider asking for a second opinion at a different hospital for them to review your mammograms and ultrasounds. However, if you do transfer your care to another hospital, you can ask that they do this.
As mentioned by @bluesatsuma and @naughty_boob you may want to make a complaint if you are unable to resolve your concerns. Here is information about how to raise care concerns in the relevant UK country England, Scotland, Wales, Northern Ireland.
We have support services for people with secondary breast cancer (cancer that has spread from the breast to another part of the body such as the bones) that you may want to consider.
In addition, you may find it helpful to speak to one of us in more detail about what has happened. You are welcome to call our helpline if you would like to do this or have any further questions. The helpline team have time to listen, talk things through and signpost you to more support and information if necessary. Your call will be confidential, and the number is free from UK landlines and all mobile networks. The number is 0808 800 6000, (Relay UK - prefix 18001).
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Eve
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