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Hi Sparkler, so sorry to hear about your Mum. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your Dad and family.
Have you got many photos of your Mum when she was younger and healthier? I always find it very comforting in your situation to select the best ones taken throughout her life and put them together in a little book. It is really good to be able to pick it up and remember the good times.
I know nothing seems to help at the moment. Take care of yourself, allow yourself time to grieve. Life will obviously be different for your Dad from now on, but in time he will adjust. Take care
Hugs Heidicat.x

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HI Hiedicat

Thanks so much for your post. I wrote a big long reply and then went to bed - but was thinking about it and thought some of it was too personal - so have got up and deleted it - hope it works!!

But I do thank you anyway. We miss mum so much it hurts - but in another way its a blessing and glad she is not suffering any more.

Take care
Love
Fiona
x

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Hi Sparkler, i am fairly new in here, and i too would like to extend my deepest condolences to you on the loss of your Mum, as they are so special, she has now been released from any pain and discomfort, and i do hope that you and your Dad can have some comfort from that. Just remember as your mother has gone, her memories are still here and living with you and your Dad.

Take care
And my thoughts are with you and your Dad
Mary xxx

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Hi Sparkler, don’t worry, you seem to have deleted the personal message. If you want to talk again you can always use the ‘private message’ option. I only discovered that when someone asked me to use it when replying to them.
Take one day at a time, and look after yourself.
We are all thinking of you and your Dad.
Love Heidicat x