Hi all
Not really sure how to even do this - My mum (who is in her early 60s) was very recently diagnosed with stage 1 breast cancer, and we should be getting confirmation from the consultant tomorrow whether she’ll need a full mastectomy or a lumpectomy. They’ve already said she will definitely be having surgery no later than June, followed by chemotherapy and radiotherapy. I want to be by my mum’s side every step of the way and do everything in my power to support her. However, I feel completely helpless, especially as we live 4 hours away from each other I told my work today, and they were very kind asking me to just let them know when I have more information, but I wanted to let them know that I will definitely be taking time off to be there for her. I don’t think I did a good job with the conversation, as the nerves kicked in, and I’m really worried they’re not going to let me be out of the office as much as I need to be. I’m an only child and my mum is my best friend, there’s no way I’m not going to be rolling my sleeves up. Would anyone have any advice for supporting a parent through breast cancer, especially if you don’t live close to each other? Also, any work advice would be very much appreciated. Lucy xxxx