7 years after my wife’s breast cancer diagnosis. We received the the tearful news it has come back somewhere in her body (will fine out more tomorrow). It took her being persistent, over a year after first noticing a lump around her neck and being fobbed off by the doctor. Tears this evening at the thought of us no longer growing old together (She is 43 and me 46)
Bazza7676 We’re here for you both, please hold onto treatments are improving and evolving all the time and many on here are living well with secondaries I’m sure some of them will pop on with care support and kindness soon for you both 
Shi xx
Dear @bazza7676 , I’m sorry to read your note.
There may be a lot of things to get your heads around right now. If at any point you need to speak to a professional - even if you’re unsure what to ask or say - please remember our breast care nurses are here. You can reach us on freephone 0808 800 6000 (Mon-Fri 9m-4pm; Sat 9am-1pm). No pressure, no judgment, all in your own time.
Sending our love
Bernard x