Nipple sharing

Hi lovely people 

has anyone gone through this process, I’m in bits, for the 2nd week running I have returned from having my dressings changed with no constructive help form the BC nurses

i had surgery 3 weeks ago to share a nipple as mine had died with the mascetomy, it appears that my nipple may or may not be surviving, it’s covered in a black scab , with no sign of life, the nurse used a word beginning with n. She stated it could be dead or there maybe  something below the scab but could not or would not give me anymore information, 2 weeks of this and I’m going out of my mind, she says it’s wait and see

Id like to know has anyone else been through this  and can share their experiences as I feel so alone and frightened 

thanks

i